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To chill or not to chill is really the question of our time when it comes to modern dating. Toeing the line between demonstrating you are interested and coming off as overbearing, obsessive, or just the dreaded and very general "too much" can be exhausting and fester enough anxiety to make anyone reluctant to leave the house. And when it comes to answering the question of should you play it chill when datingthere's a bit of a problem with perception.
If you can never really know how you're affecting another person, how much should you be worried about how you're coming across? How can you tell whether you are overextending yourself? Dating is supposed to be about having fun, but it's hard to know if everybody's even playing the same game. As someone who oscillates wildly between having zero chill i. But really, I think there was a lot of merit to what my mom said right from the beginning about dating: being your self is enough to attract the right people.
There's no reason to play it cool if you're feeling passionate about someone. Having intense emotions is actually an extremely powerful gift; the right person for you is going to appreciate the depth of your emotions and want to be with you completely, without having to make adjustments, changes, or edits to suit their perception of how a person should be. Still, I don't have all of the answers to modern dating — let's be real, it's a struggle — I reached out to some peers who also struggle with the question of whether it's good to have a lot of chill, or if being too relaxed about dating cuts you off from seeking the relationship you want and deserve.
Here's what they said:.
In this day and age, I feel like you would have to be completely disconnected from reality to be a truly "chill girl. A relationship, whether short or long term, should be one area of our life where we don't have to place pressure on ourselves to succeed It's about being together without an agenda, and appreciating each other as complicated individual human beings. And it starts with appreciating yourself, just the way you are.
By Cosmo Luce. Kristen Curette Hines. Here's what they said: 1. Search Close.Female looking to chill
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