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Lots of guys are naturally confident when they do this. But for the most part, learning how to approach is something you learn with a lot of practice and rejection. But keep in mind that with rejection and all the effort you put in comes the skill to get women to be more interested in you. So if you want to learn how to make the first move on an older woman, let's get you started in the right direction. Generally speaking, all women find the same traits attractive in men.
There are many s she wants you to make a move. Some are extremely subtle that only the keenest observer can see them. Other s, however, are much more obvious if you know what to look for. They include: asking you questions, sharing personal information about herself, unnecessarily touching you, telling her friends about you and mentioning places she likes to go.
If you see any or several of these, it may well be time to make the first move. Our list of the top 10 s she wants you reveals more. Making the initial move on women who are more mature than you begins with these proven steps. Use these tips for women you meet out and about as well as those you have met online you can see our review of the best sites to meet older women here.
To give yourself the best chance of success, you need to first make sure she has noticed you. Search for some kind of that she wants you to make a move or is curious about you. This is especially true if you're at a place where it's easy to meet older women. Older women tend to be clearer and more forward with their intentions.
This is your invitation to give her some s back. In order to move things forward with any woman, it's usually not enough for her to just be attracted to you even if you're younger. She also has to be comfortable with you. Essentially, this means she has to trust you, feel safe around you and notice an emotional connection with you.
Most importantly, she has to believe you have her best interests at heart.
You might think that this is less important to a savvy older woman with a bit more life experience. If anything, she has probably grown mature enough not to make decisions based on pure attraction. In this stage of her life, emotional connections are likely to be more important to her. She's probably run off with enough players who didn't give a damn about her.
It takes time to make women feel comfortable around you. If she starts to share similarly personal tales, that's a she feels comfortable in your presence. It also helps if you're in a place where she feels comfortable as an older woman talking to a younger man. Your will likely suffer if she is unable to let her guard down and feel free to connect with you. When learning how to make a move on an older woman, it's important to be able to spot when she wants you to push things forward.
Women will show s they're attracted to you, but they're likely to be more subtle than the als a man would make. This is especially true with older women. Where a younger woman might be carefree enough to throw her arms around you and stick her tongue down your throat, an older woman tends to send more sophisticated indicators of interest through her body language.
These moves can be as subtle as holding lingering eye contact, asking personal questions or moving unnecessarily close to you. It's also common for an older woman to lightheartedly play down the chances of anything happening between you. Perhaps she teases you verbally or politely gives you the cheek when you make a move to kiss her. Make a note of the sub-communications when she pulls moves like these. Is she still smiling? Is her body language still relaxed? Often, in these scenarios, she's not outright rejecting you at all.
She might just be adding further anticipation to enhance the moment when it does come. At the same time, she may want to see how you react to these small rejections. Does your confidence waver or do you remain in a self-assured mood? If you can remain sure of yourself, even without her showing obvious s of attraction, this can prove to be incredibly attractive. Most women really enjoy the "will we, won't we" nature of flirting with a new man.
So, you need to learn how to play this game when you pick up older women without getting too frustrated. If she does pull away when you go for a kiss, you need to not let it bother you. Also, she'll appreciate it if you keep her guessing with any moves you make on her. Think of it as a "two steps forward, one step back" approach.
Instead, keep it short and sweet. End the kiss before she does. Then, avoid kissing her again for a short while. This helps build the anticipation for a longer, more passionate kiss in the future. She'll love you for allowing the romance to build slowly.
Since this is a discussion of how to make a move on an older womanwe must go over the essentials, and this next point is as essential as it gets. No matter your particular circumstance at a given moment, you should always ease into making your move. Sit close enough so that your legs are touching. Then, you can hold her hand or caress her forearms. Make a comment about how smooth her skin is. But you should still ease into it further. Start making deeper eye contact while taking glances at her lips.
Maybe even brush her hair back with your fingers. Put your fingers under her chin and guide her towards you. This is a perfect example of how to ease into a first kiss. Hesitation is usually a result of overthinking and needless anxiety, which is entirely self-inflicted. This is because rejection is infinitely more tolerable than regret! But don't worry because you're not alone.
To build on the last point, remember that any first move you make is essentially a risk. A risk that you owe yourself to take. Otherwise, how else are you to succeed? Generally speaking, women reward bold behavior in men especially older womenif the actions remain respectful. They expect you to make the first move—to act and not hesitate. You have more to lose by being passive than you do by being "sensibly" aggressive.
Reflect on your actions afterwards, instead of thinking of what could have been. Older women tend to be far less forgiving when they spot this lack of self-assuredness. They have less time to waste on bumbling guys without the courage to go for what they want. It won't be seen as polite and gentlemanly to not make a move at all. It will be seen as cowardly. Either that or she'll think you're not into her at all. Neither conclusion will have her jumping at the opportunity to see you again.
This isn't high school anymore. Most older women are looking for a confident go-getter who can look after them.
You're nearly always better off making a move too quickly - and calibrating if she turns you down - than not making a move at all. Sure, there's more risk of an embarrassing rejection when you make your romantic intentions clear. In some cases, it might be smarter to be vaguer about why you want to swap contact details. Maybe, for example, she's surrounded by professional colleagues and would be embarrassed by an overtly romantic interaction.
Yet, for the most part, an older woman will appreciate the courage required to put your balls on the line in this way. You can put this down to years of experience, and being hurt in the past. And when you do, pull her in softly by the waist for a brief moment. This is a great way to establish a warm precedent for your date.
Try and establish a physical connection before leaping to a kiss. If she shies away from you, then back off. It might be the twenty-first century, but most women still expect men to make the first move. Mistakes are nothing to be ashamed of. This is how we learn and grow as human beings. And that most certainly includes your love life.
That being said, there are some common mistakes you should know about, so you can avoid them when making a move on an older woman. One of the biggest mistakes you can make when you make the first move on an older woman is being at the wrong place at the wrong time. There are plenty of spots where you can meet older womenbut some are more hidden than others. So if you're at a club full of younger women or at a bar full of other dudes, it might be time to switch it up.
Find someplace that mature women are more likely to visit. Trust your instincts and get a feel of the situation. Get to know her a little before rushing to ask her out. But it might not be. This is a mistake the majority of men have made at some point in their lives. You might just be missing the multitude of s that she wants you to make a move! Nevertheless, it remains true that women--and older women especially--like men to be direct with their intentions. A man who is clear and shameless about going for what he wants is attractive.
At the same time, women appreciate a bit of subtlety when men make these moves. This allows them to maintain some sophistication and enjoy the slow progression of a blossoming romance. It might sound complicated, but you can master this with a bit of practice.
When you do, older women will be melting at your feet.
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